Thanks to T5Luke and his software i did succesfully clone my V70 MY2003 cem and changed the carconfig in the new second hand S60 MY2001 cem.
Everything is working as it should.

I made the parameter file to T5Lukes program after whats availble in vida for my car a v70 MY2003.
Maybe you need to adapt for your car. many thanks to bvrton for the SQLQueries.zip so i could make this.