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Etiquette reminder

Post by matthew1 »

Hello guys and the handful of women who frequent this board,

This board prides itself on several qualities, namely our very high on-topicality* and our manners. Translated into English, that means we don't wander too far off subjects, and we treat each other with a level of courtesy and respect that has few peers in the automotive forum world.

Lately some discussions have veered from this ideal. I do not want to single out members** or topics because my level of discomfort, so far, is below that threshold. Writing to people about their attitude gives me a horrible paternal/disciplinary feeling in my gut. I prefer a self-regulating forum.

Everyone: please use sarcasm sparingly or not at all, and if you do, please use an emoticon or two to help convey your meaning. Without voice and facial features found in face-to-face discussion, plain written words can be taken too many ways.

Also, please
  • have a thick skin,
  • go on the assumption that others do not have one, and
  • address other members as you would if you were sitting across from them at a table
With the increased traffic and greater membership numbers, we're bound to have a higher rate of heated discussions. That is a good thing. Two or more people arguing their points is how we all learn, and trading information is the reason this forum exists. An opinion unchallenged and/or uncorroborated is an opinion I take less seriously than one which has stood up to others' scrutiny.

Thanks for keeping these points in mind when using this forum, thanks to all members for choosing MVS, and extra special thanks to moderators. If you haven't yet, send a moderator a private message thanking him for his help.


* is that a word?
** and it's poor management... "public praise, private criticism"
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Post by IVIUSTANG »

I apologize for my part in you making this post Mathew, I may have gotten a bit defensive in my Mos2 thread. I have seen courtesy in these forums that are so out of place on other forums, "newbies" are treated like royalty here in spite of the lack of utilizing search functions :D Let the good times and information roll on!

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2007 S60 2.5T loaded 63,000 KM SOLD!
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Post by RobTheModd »

matthew1 wrote:Hello guys and the handful of women who frequent this board,
I like this part. ^^^^

I love this forum for all the goodness it has brought me when attempting repairs! and the forum mods I have interacted with the most, Lee to be specific is a great one! Always there. And chances are, if he hasn't posted on your HELP ME MY CAR WENT KA BOOM!!! its because he hasn't hit submit yet.

I use this forum for help, If I want to be totally crazy and dumb, I take it to another forum, less professional then this one.

Matt you've got a great site! Keep it up!

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Post by polskamafia mjl »

I too agree that this forum is far above any others I have come across. My girl friend has a BMW that I take care of as well as my 850. The BMW forums are a far far cry from the sophistication, organization, and social interaction we experience here.
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Post by misha »

This is the best Volvo forum ever and i spend a lot of my time here.Members are great,moderators are THE BEST,and everybody here are very friendly and always ready to help each other.

It's also the most visited Volvo forum and it's active 24/7.Repair database is a gold-mine.

Thank you MVS! :wink:
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Post by stone36 »

In other words...

"You stay classy, MVS Forum." :D
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Post by bright »

Thank you for reminding me where I have crossed the line in my conversation. I never meant to give offense (well just a bit if I was heavily needled :D ) but even then I do apologize.

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Post by bright »

And to go off topic and risk the ire of Matt :wink:

Topicality - the quality or state of being topical
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/topicality

Topical -
a : of, relating to, or arranged by topics <set down in topical form>
b : referring to the topics of the day or place : of local or temporary interest <a topical novel> <topical references>
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/topical

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