UPDATE.
So i got the new pump in and started and unfortunately the same problem happened. It started, idled for 2-3 seconds, sputtered and then died.
I decided to jump the relay again, and this time it worked.
I left the car idling for 5 minutes then revved it a little and it worked fine.
I put the relay back in and it won't start.
So it would seem that both my fuel pump and my fuel pump relay were bad. I must have really bad luck
So I'll get a new relay. I hope that this is the last thing that I need.






