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Re: Everyone hug, kiss, call, text, IM, PM, Em, your Mom today...and post here

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pfmet wrote: 20 Oct 2023, 05:50 Best wishes to your Mom abscate.
Thanks. I can’t reach the thanks button on mobile but that’s why we have text

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Im sorry to hear about this. Blessings.
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Post by foggydogg »

Hope everything heals up well, after all she does drive a car with three pedals, so she needs both legs working as designed.
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Mom hanging in there but I signed a DNR last night. If she doesn’t turn the corner soon, the hospital stay

Have the DNR conversation with your loved ones early, we did last summer
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Ugh. I’m so sorry. DNR is hard. My mom has made her wishes clear: DNR.
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I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. We all need to pray for better news soon. DNR is a very hard decision to have to make, even more so as the appointee. Very hard place to be.

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She has perked up a bit. BP is holding and electrolytes are staying balanced. If we can get her up within a week or so, she might dodge this one, but it will be rough if we can’t get her out of that bed soon.

Evita the S70 is doing a great job shuttling us between home and hospital. It’s only 4 miles away , PTL.
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I'll be thinking of your mom, you, and your family. Thank you for posting a picture of her with such bright eyes and strong smile. I'm wishing strength for you all.
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Well, she took a downturn and near coded on sats last night, so I rushed home , just made the noon ferry and met with palliative care

I signed the Comfort Care only order at 2 pm , and will stay with her through the night as she transitions to the lane of contactless ETMs , no Check Engine lights , and where T5s line in harmony with Rs
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Post by matthew1 »

Steve, I don't know what to say... my heart is with you and your mom. I wish I had better words to write.
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