Remote start/ Alarm install

[yojason]

Hi All I am in the process of installing a Keyless Entry Push Button Remote Engine Start on my 04 C70. I have a couple of issues I need help with. First the unlock required 2 pulses but my alarm only gives out one. Anyone know a workaround for this ? 2. When the parking light flash with the alarm the headlights also flash. I am connecting at the white wire at the switch. Anyone know how to isolate the lights so that just the parking lights flash ? 3. Anyone know where I can get a + or - signal that indicated the engine is on for the remote start? Thanks for any help.