Well, after all that, the dealer called Volvo Technical and Volvo has agreed to pay for the fix. Thanks for the response!

I have my car being fixed for the ETM recall. My mechanic checked it (when it broke down) and said the code was an emission problem and I brought it to a dealer to have the recall fixed. They replaced the throttle, but were not able to replace the software- it would not jive with my car. Now they ar...