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Raise children an non violence talk "concept"

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Here i am. Holidays. A mobil home in the middle of a regional natural park, in a camping.

Meet an old friend there, with 3 kids, unbearables ones, to me. My friend speaks about non violence educating "concept", impression that its kids "walk on his head". He is a cool guy.

But, deception, somewhere.

His wife told me she would lay on the ground and start to cry. What kind of parent would be so ?

I never beat my 2 sons. We always talk. Teach them to use their head more than something else. My sons askes me sometimes questions for ones i need few seconds to answer. But i do. And when i can't, i say it...

My wife says that a family is "an enlightned dictatorship". Frustration is part of education to me. If a kid doesn't learn the sens of "limit" will he be able to enter in real life well armed ?

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There are families that have raised well adjusted children using a wide variety of techniques , which have failed others. I was “ paddled” on rare occasion as a child but never hit my kids. If I had, I would be in a crushed V70 in a NJ junkyard somewhere, without the cannolis
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