So in the dark, I was able to get it reconnected to the little bit of plastic that was there and drive the 20 minutes home. It was leaking a bit, but it worked long enough.
It took some poking about to get the proper radiator. I ordered it from the local auto store over the phone and when they were not sure which one to get, I had them order both of them. The multiple ones I ordered didn't have the oil and and transmission coolers. I started to compare the different radiators and one store had one that was for an XC, but it had the right coolers so I ended up getting one made in China! It had a lifetime warranty and I guess Volvo is owned by the Chinese now.
It takes a bit of doing to get the radiator off of the car. Here's what it looks like in process, a bit of a mess.
The radiator, turbo intercooler, A/C condenser and the electric fan are all connected to the radiator. Here's hoping this radiator lasts the rest of the life of the car.






